A Loyal Relationship

my dearest lovely RAHKEE (the pretty one, haha they all are) ask this question.

why can't men be loyal while in a relationship? and why is it women are doing the same thing? if that's the case why stay in the relationship?

i cant say a word, but i have an opinion.

when there is loyalty there is relationship. there will be no relationship in the absence of loyalty. so when you are loyal to each other you stay in a relationship. by the time one or both is/are infidel the relationship is off.

the fact is we live in a moment. the past is history and tomorrow is unknown. when we are in a relationship everything is perfectly euphoric. that’s the right thing to do just live each moment. for if we worry about what’s next we just waste our time and put boundaries in a relationship. in which we will not enjoy the gift of love brings. as I have said before the end will come, it will, naturally or by choice.

it is the choice of the other that is most fearful of them all the choice of abandoning the alleluia of moments shared. however that’s the risk that we all have to take, we earn more we loss more, a relationship is more that more it is everything in life. its either the relationship or others, as said and proven to be true 'we can not serve two masters'.

when you hesitate to love, trust, respect and understand the other its better not to commit on a relationship. in this way you would not hurt yourself or your partner, and will destroy nothing in the end. both of the evolved can enjoy the companionship, sharing or even pleasure. but not the intimacy, offerings, sacrifices, rewards, stability and security of a relationship brings. when your into a relationship it is giving not in receiving that we enjoy the fruits, so rather you give it all with no hesitation and doubt or never be in a relationship at all. because in trust there is intimacy, without doubts there is stability and security, without lie there is no fear and if there are sacrifices then we are showered by offerings and rewards

when two persons are clear of the choices they make and understand the consequences of this choices. that’s the time a relationship works and last. it takes two to tango. so both have to make the same decisions conclusive to one. so loyalty is not a question for the other. but a question of me willing to make a choice and stand firm to it. the choice of giving without receiving.

anyway just keep in mind that money, lust and power is the devils favorite toy. the next time your partner go astray. don’t think why he/she is such an infidel. tell yourself this is the time that he/she needed you most. trust me there is no greater love than the sacrifices you make. and believe me you will see thru and give a never ending thanks when your partner do the same thing when you have done wrong.

but if you are proud egocentric self-centered person don’t bother to be in a relationship. I suggest you get a slave. and if the choice is to succumb into money, power and lust, yes relationship is not needed.

for there is love in this world and they are worth fighting for.